I managed to get the mcOTA program to recognise the dongle. I have a dual boot setup on my computer with win 7 and win 10 on the same computer
Upon installing the mcOTA on windows 10 it installed the dongle in literally under 10 seconds
So problem is with defiantly something to do with win 7 or an application that is controlling / commanding it
Right now im happy it finally works and will just use win 10 I guess this might be the push I need to finally transition to win 10